Abusive relationships challenge our ability to take care of ourselves and leave us feeling victimized. It is important that you work on changing your victim mentality. Many of us complain that we are victims in our relationships.
When they start threatening you, you better notify the authorities immediately. Don’t think that they might just be trying to scare you. You have seen and read enough evidence to show otherwise.
Spend time with your support network as often as possible. Surround yourself with close friends, trusted family members, and support professionals like counselors or coaches. This is important to help you counteract the effects of whatever messages the abuser has put in your head.
Fear of what other people might think. There is often a social stigma that labels women as failures if they dare to leave their partners. Usually nobody outside the home realities realises what is going on which adds to that stigma. This leads to feelings of insecurity. And so they stay.
Be sure to take all of your important documents when you leave. This includes your Social Security card, driver’s license, and passport. If you are taking children with you, be sure to bring their birth certificates and Social Security cards if you can.
