Start noticing men that you may not have noticed before. Don’t limit yourself to dating a very specific type of man. Go out with different types of men and broaden your horizons. This does not mean that you should lower your standards. It simply means that you should get your wish list in order. Even if you don’t make a love connection you’ve made a new friend. And remember he has friends.
You will find the perfect guy when the timing is just right for you. Don’t be too impatient to find him – it could be that you are not emotionally ready for him. Remember you will lose a bit of your independence if this perfect guy moves into your life! Relax and you could find him when you least expect it.
The best way to do it is to know the person better. You are in a better position to gauge a man’s character when you see how he behaves in various circumstances and occasions, which is only possible when you have allowed the relationship to go beyond casual. The process of how to find the guy for you takes time, but your effort will be worth the wait.
A successful relationship is maintained by both the partners by respecting & honoring their love by committing to each other’s best interests. If you are with a man who doesn’t cherish your love, but is only concerned with his own happiness, be very wary. He should be willing to go beyond his own self interests & see the worth of honoring those values that you aspire to & hold dear.
Once you realize that, it is not difficult to learn how to find the right man. Learn to become an interesting person. Work hard to remove the defects in your character. Complete your education. Model yourself after the women you admire. Do some social work and help those who are less fortunate. Join a self-improvement class.
Most women will say they will not date a married man, so if they come across a married man there is no point in them finding out whether or not he enjoys the same hobbies or likes children. Put the most important things at the top of the list, the deal breakers, such as if the man is married, and only work your way down through the less important things if you can successfully tick that off.
Another thing men find attractive is women who have good hygiene. I know this is probably something you know. Or seem like its common sense. But I just want you to know that guys do pay attention. You may think guys don’t notice when you get your hair done, do your nails, or buy new clothes, but they do.
Growing up means realizing that what is on the outside should matter far less than what is on the inside. The hard learned lesson here girls; the perfect man could be an illusion. Looking for your perfect man based on looks looks alone is not going to get you anything more than a good looking creep.
Learning something new will make you a better person, give you a new outlook and refresh your optimism. This is always a good thing to do. Take a class, meet new people and risk getting to know the opportunities available for you in the world. There are plenty out there.