Your relationship should be committed and solid with no uncertainty. Searching into this will give you a good idea as to whether or not you should move forward with the next step. When assessing your relationship you should look into various aspects. Are you close with your partner? Do you go to them when you need advice, or help with anything that is on your mind? Can they make you feel better when you are low? When you look into their eyes do you see your future together?
Talking is not necessarily the same as communicating. You need to be able to talk to this person in your life in a constructive way. If you have already argued, you already know if this is possible. We don’t always get along with the people we love, but we should be willing to get along with them most of the time and try to love them when we are feeling negative about them. If you felt like you came away from the situation understanding the other person better, you are able to communicate.
Now it is time to get the location where you plan to propose to her set up. Ensure that is a romantic spot. Do not forget to go with your engagement ring! It won’t be nice to get a “yes” and then have no ring to seal the deal.
You need to show off to him that you are capable of becoming a wife. You need to let him taste your cooking. If you don’t know how to cook, enroll in some cooking classes. You see, a guy would want to have a girl who knows how to cook. He wants to come home after work to a nice home-cooked meal. You need to show him that you know how to take good care of him. You should also show him that you know how to do your household chores.
To think creatively on your part requires you to remember – you will need your memory to be sharper than it normally is here. Casually ask your girlfriend about the things which she is most passionate about. Also ask her about memories from her childhood which she finds most unforgettable. Finally, you need to ask her about activities which she finds to be her favorite.
Talk about your married friends who’s marriages are successful. Share with your boyfriend things that you’ve learned from these friends and what they’re enjoying about married life. (Maybe that friend will have some advice for you about how to get your boyfriend to propose!) Again, be subtle. Don’t make this the only topic that you ever talk about or you risk getting to the point of nagging. But once a week while you’re engaged in deeper topics, feel free to bring up these tidbits of information.
Then the final day will come. If you hired the right planner, you will be kept up to date as the whole thing unfolds and you will not feel left out of the process. Your girlfriend will be in complete shock because she will not have expected to be proposed to since you are deployed overseas. She will feel so special and honored that you worked so hard to put together a proposal from far way.