You may really hate yourself for what happened, but keep doing it will only make matters worse. If you can’t even love yourself, how can you expect your ex to love you? Nobody is perfect, so are you. You made mistake, so did your ex. That’s why the break up happened. Self acceptance is crucial.
You need to accept the fact that your relationship is over for the time being. There is no reason for you to let go but you need to show your ex you respect his decision and feelings. Nothing will push away your boyfriend faster than a desperate,needy and clingy ex girlfriend, believe it.
Keeping yourself busy is a good idea. When you are busy focusing on some activities-like your jobs, or even expressing your feeling with closed friends of yours and so on-, you do not have times to recall about your ex and your break up. This does not mean that you will be able to forget your past right away, and completely. However, you will start to feel better.
So many people have given advice on how to handle a break up. Some feel you should move on right away, some feel you should mourn and eat a bucket of ice cream, some feel you should relentlessly chase the person down and make them love you.
Relationship advice can come from everywhere after a breakup. Friends and relatives will all have the latest relationship tips for you to follow. Heed these at your on risk. The best relationship tips you can get right now are from someone that has been there and has survived. Read some recommended books on the subject
Re-connect with them so that they remember the good times. This is a slow process and can never be rushed but if you’re serious about getting your ex back then patience will be your middle name.Now this last tip is the most important because this is all based on the emotions so you must plan this out in a military fashion. Remember that one false step or one wrong word could ruin getting your ex back for a long time if not forever.