To bring back lost love it is important that you have an open communication and you two can talk about almost anything. It does not mean that you can only talk about heavy things or you must engage in a confrontational talk. An open communication is simply talking just about anything under the sun.
Plan a get-away vacation or do the things that you both used to do when you first fell in-love. Spending alone time with each other and bringing back old romantic memories can be very helpful to reconnect with each other. Go to your favorite restaurant, for example, or rent one of your favorite movies to help bring back those memories and remind you of those first few months of strong love.
Start your journey back to love by centering yourself emotionally on the best parts of your relationship. To do this, close your eyes and bring up a memory of better times, when the two of you were at your happiest. Get in touch with what it was that makes this person so special to you – both then and now.
Revisit the place where you first met or where you got engaged. Watch your wedding videos and look at your old photos together to remind you how happy you felt when you said “I do” to each other and realize that losing the spark in your marriage is just a phase that you both need to survive.
Give him or her time to think. Even if you want to win your love back as soon as possible, you cannot rush anyone on a major decision especially when it comes to relationships. Do not control your ex by using his or her weaknesses just to get your love back. You will just make things complicated, instead of fixing it.
Talk about whatever is on your mind; compare childhood stories, reminisce about school or remember how you first met. Talking freely will make you feel closer. Life is much more enjoyable when experienced through the lens of a romantic relationship and it is much easier to deal with the stressors of life with the strength that an active loving relationship provides.